Every woman tries to do everything so that her husband is happy. Unless, of course, they have strong feelings.
Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for a happy man (at least his wife thinks so) to leave his family or have a lover.
It turns out that the woman did everything wrong, and her partner did not dare to express her complaints to her.
If you value relationships, you should talk to your husband more often. But not every man will frankly say that something does not suit him.
Do not despair, you can easily understand what feelings your husband experiences if you are a little more attentive.
Below are 10 signs that your husband is happily married to you. If your loved one does at least something from the proposed list, then he is well next to you.
10. He kisses you regularly
A man who is happy in a relationship is happy to kiss his wife. And not only kisses.
He shows tenderness, he wants to hug you, sit next to him, hold his hand.
Physical contact between a man and a woman is very important. It's not just about sex, although a happy marriage is also impossible without it.
If your man is offended or unhappy with something, he is unlikely to want to touch you. Again, kisses and hugs for some men are a matter of habit, "so that the wife does not suspect anything."
Therefore, first of all, pay attention to whether your husband likes to touch you, hug and kiss you.
Duty kisses and hasty hugs (if only lagged behind) do not count. No wonder they say that the first sign of dying love is the absence of kisses.
I do not want to kiss an unloved person. What kind of happiness can we talk about here?
9. Calls and writes
Of course, with time, passion subsides. There are no longer those romantic messages and lengthy phone conversations.
But a loving husband will never forget to call or write to his wife, especially if she has problems.
Of course, everything is individual. If your husband does not have the opportunity to talk on the phone or send messages during the working day, this does not mean that he is unhappy with you.
Representatives of some professions really can not find a free minute to get to the phone. In this case, do not be offended or blame your man for indifference.
But if your chosen one went on a business trip and did not even call you, this is an alarming bell.
If you are dear to your man, he will certainly inform you about his arrival, and will also ask if everything is fine with you.
8. Says he loves
Yes, many men do not like to confess their love. As they say, from them words cannot be pulled out by ticks.
But even the most severe man will not restrain his feelings and tell his chosen one that he loves her if he feels happy.
These points may be rare. A man will say about his love when he is moved by a situation. Yes, it can be enchanting sex, and delicious roast, and a sweater tied with your hands.
The rest of the time he will be silent. Most men believe that if they once said their love, there is no need to repeat it.
7. Does not play a role
If your man pretends to play roles, he a priori cannot be happy.
This happens if a woman makes too high demands and tries to change him. Perhaps he loves you and wants you to be happy. To do this, a calm domestic man will pretend to be an independent macho, and an ordinary guy, far from high society, will learn not to be afraid of cutlery in a restaurant and even read a book about etiquette.
Yes, love can work miracles. It's just hard to pretend all my life. A man who plays a role cannot be happy. One fine day, he will gladly take off his mask and go to the one that will love his present with all the shortcomings and advantages.
6. Shares the secret
If a man tells you his secrets, then he trusts you. He talks about his plans and dreams, does not worry about what will make a negative impression.
He is not afraid to seem strange and funny. He knows that you are on the same wavelength with him, so support all his undertakings. Your chosen one feels comfortable next to you, so do not let him down.
Do not miss his stories past your ears so that there are no embarrassing situations in the style: "I told you so."
5. Helps around the house
A happy husband will happily help his wife with household chores. He will wash the dishes, vacuum the carpet in the living room and even cook dinner. He wants to spend as much time as possible with his beloved wife, so he is ready to do everything to make her life a little easier.
Unfortunately, in this situation, most women make a fatal mistake. They begin to criticize her husband: "Not so washed, not so prepared." Such comments will repel all desire to do something.
Therefore, if your man helps you around the house, rejoice and say thanks to him, admire him. He is well next to you, even a couple of broken plates and salted soup will not be able to interfere with your happiness.
4. It takes care of itself
If your man is happy next to you, he will never forget about his appearance. He wants to be liked by his beloved, so he does not ignore the bathroom and the razor.
If you notice that the partner pays little attention to appearance, it is not necessary that love is gone. Perhaps he has problems at work or an age crisis. In this case, only a frank conversation will help.
3. Tells you compliments
Does your husband regularly compliment you? You are the happiest woman in the world, and he is the happiest man.
There are husbands in the world who notice the slightest changes in the appearance of the wife and admire them. They compose poems, sing praises, and all this is not once in a day.
It is a pity that there are very few of them. All the rest are capable of only the banal: "You are the most beautiful."
If your husband does not know how to speak beautifully, reconcile. Inept compliments are also good, the main thing is that they should be said from the heart.
2. He respects you
If a man loves and appreciates you, if he feels good near you, he will never allow himself insulting words addressed to you.
A loving husband will not offend a woman who makes him happy. Of course, a lot depends on the upbringing and on the behavior of the woman herself.
A man with a strong and tough character will be affectionate and gentle if his chosen one takes care of him, does not read him notations and does not require a diamond necklace and a mink coat.
Even the most quiet and modest husband will not stand if his beloved will too often cause scandals.
1. He is just fine next to you
A man will be happiest if he is well next to his beloved woman. If he knows that they are waiting at home, he will gladly return there.
He does not seek to escape from a cozy nest, he wants to spend as much free time with you as possible. He can say: "I feel good next to you."
If this is your situation, then your relationship can only be envied. If you notice that your husband is moving away more and more, do not wait for the weather by the sea. Take control of the situation.
Perhaps you still have a chance to change everything, and you can make your chosen one the happiest man on earth.