Good wife, what is she? If you ask this question to men, everyone will have an opinion on this. Someone wants to see a business woman nearby, someone an intellectually developed person, someone dreams of a housewife.
Of course, there are certain advantages in the fact that a woman does not work. The house is always clean and tidy, fresh food, a man does not have to do household chores. True, a man does not always see a similar picture, even if he allows his beloved to sit at home.
By the way, several decades ago, women sat quietly at home, they did not dream of a career, of high fees and universal respect. However, at that time, housewives were also not easy, because they also had their own set of rules.
In 1955, an article entitled "A Guide to a Good Wife" was published in a famous American magazine. Soon she became popular all over the world. We do not know whether Soviet women complied with these rules, but they published a book on economics for them in the 60s. It had several chapters that gave women similar advice.
If you want to learn more about the rules of the ideal wife of the 50s, read our article.
10. Understanding and forgiveness
A good wife does not reread to her husband; she will try to understand him in any situation. If a man decided to relax with friends, he should be released without further ado. He can go wherever he wants, do not ask him anything.
The man is very tired, he is forced to work every day, so he needs rest. And if the husband appears only in the morning, the ideal wife will meet him with fried eggs and a sweet smile on his face.
If modern men saw this, they would be very envious of their grandfathers. It's just that modern women are unlikely to agree to behave this way.
9. Peace and quiet
When the husband comes home from work, the house should be quiet. Yes, like in the library. In no case should you turn on the washing machine or other household appliances that are a source of noise.
Children should also be quiet, do not scream, do not run, do not be naughty, do not molest your father. Of course, the wife should not talk either. But she must create an appropriate atmosphere in the house.
By the way, this rule may seem ridiculous, but most men after work prefer not to be touched. They want some time to be alone with themselves, to be silent, and only then to communicate with relatives. Men do not know how to switch quickly, unlike women.
8. Modesty
A woman should be silent not only when her husband returned from work. She must be laconic all the time. For modern emancipated women, this state of affairs will not be exactly right. And the ideal wives of those years took it for granted.
The man was the main in the family, he made important decisions. The woman was engaged in the house and children, did not even think of applying for something more. It was in the order of things. Some families still observe these rules. It all depends on the upbringing and nature of the woman.
7. Appearance
A good wife must always be on top. This applies not only to household chores, but also to appearance. Even if the day was very difficult, you should put yourself in order before the arrival of your husband: put on a beautiful dress, clean an apron, make-up, comb your hair.
The man worked all day, so he deserved to be met at home by a beautiful and happy woman.
Perhaps many modern girls should heed this rule. During the candy-bouquet period, they look after themselves, look great. After the wedding, many of them forget about the existence of cosmetics and a hairdresser, put on an old bathrobe and turn into a "aunt."
6. Preparing children for the arrival of the father
The ideal wife should take care not only of herself, but also of the children. They should look neat. You should wash them, change into clean clothes.
It is also necessary to take care of silence, for this she agrees with the children so that they do not make noise.
To be honest, this rule is not feasible for most women. Maybe in the 50s, children were more obedient? In any case, you can agree with an adult child, but how can a wife silence an infant or an active two-year-old child?
5. Positive attitude
House order, beautiful appearance - that's not all. It is important to be fun, to have a positive attitude. The man is very tired at work, in the evening he needs to be entertained.
A good wife will always find a way to cheer up her husband. She will choose a topic for conversation, support her husband with kind words.
Disabled women had to develop: read books, newspapers, know what was happening in the world, have a broad outlook.
An ideal wife should be a great conversationalist. If the husband is not disposed to communication, she will not bother him.
4. House order
The ideal wife at home is always in order. No matter how she feels, by the time she arrives she must clean the house: wipe off the dust, mop the floor, and vacuum. That's not all.
It is necessary that the apartment always shines with cleanliness and comfort. Only in this case, the man will be pleased to be at home. If there are small children in the family, you should make sure that toys are not lying around.
Yes, almost 70 years have passed since then, but this rule has not lost its relevance. Wives still need order in the house, even if she works. Many men consider it below their dignity to clean up after themselves, leaving a mess for their beloved wife.
3. Comfort level - maximum
When a man returns from work, he should feel maximum comfort. Let his wife sit him in a soft chair, serve a drink, warm or cold, depending on the time of year.
By the way, in the book of home economics for non-working women it was advised to meet her husband with beer, as well as snacks. And one should know his tastes, and in no case do not buy dark beer if he likes light beer.
Modern men do not even dare to dream of such a thing. Although, it is possible that unemployed women try to surround them with comfort and care.
2. Sincere interest
After the husband has dinner, he will probably want to chat with his wife. In this case, she should listen to him, support him if he needs it.
The wife is also obliged to remember everything that the husband tells. Do not think about business during conversations, you can miss an important detail. Let the husband feel sincere interest.
Also, the ideal wife will never complain, no matter what happens. Women were encouraged to speak in a low voice to reassure their husband.
This rule can be adopted by any modern woman. To establish a relationship with a spouse you just need to show interest in his affairs.
1. Breakfast, lunch and dinner
Of course, a good wife knows how to cook deliciously. She will never feed her husband yesterday's soup. She has a new freshly prepared dish for breakfast, lunch and dinner. She pre-invents a menu the next day, in the evening, and sometimes even at night.
Do not forget that much here depends on the man himself. If he makes good money, there are a lot of different products at home, his wife can easily cook a variety of dishes.
In any case, if a woman meets a man with a delicious dinner, he will be very happy. He will feel that they were waiting for him at home.
You can’t argue with this, everyone enjoys the care of a loved one. Fragile women and strong men will appreciate it.