There is not much time left before the New Year. Just get rid of 10 things that pull you back, take away your energy and strength.
10. People with whom you are not on the way
They are surrounded by everyone. These are friends, colleagues, acquaintances or even relatives. You used to communicate well, but now you understand that your paths have diverged. But you still can’t decide and put an end to this communication. Moreover, one should not maintain relations with former lovers, envious, ill-wishers. If these people were once dear to you, arrange a heart-to-heart conversation, thank you for everything, and firmly say that further communication is impossible. If they know that you are not enthusiastic about their company, but are still being imposed, stop answering calls, messages. Do not think about the rules of good form, think about yourself. Say goodbye to the past and start life from scratch.
9. Everything old and unnecessary in the house
In Italy there is such a custom: just before the New Year, people throw out broken dishes and old furniture from the windows. They get rid of junk. A good method, however, it is a little categorical. Get rid of unnecessary things, rake all the rubble, upgrade the apartment. Do a spring cleaning. Without regrets, part with clothing that you don’t wear. Throw away gifts from unpleasant people, things that you do not use. You will be surprised how the atmosphere in your home will change. Its energy will be updated, changes will come into your life. Just do it in advance, and do not be tempted to throw everything out the window.
8. Debts
Many people believe that if you enter the New Year with old debts, you will have to spend all year. Therefore, close all your debts or at least part of them. It is worth giving not only financial debts, but also to fulfill all the promises you made to people. Unpaid amounts, outstanding work bring negativity into your life, try to get rid of it. If you can’t keep your word, then talk to someone who is waiting, explain the situation or completely abandon your obligations.
7. Fears
Everyone has fears, there are no people who would not experience this feeling. Someone is afraid of a terrible disease or death, someone is afraid to be alone. On this list is the fear of speaking in public, the fear of heights, mice and many more various phobias. But no matter what you fear. Try to get rid of your fears, you will see how life will sparkle with bright colors. New opportunities will appear, you can change jobs or find a soul mate, you can raise your self-esteem. There are many ways to deal with fear. Fight him alone or find like-minded people. Learn about your fear as much as possible. If you feel that you cannot manage it yourself, consult a specialist.
6. Bad habits
Bad habits harm the body. You probably know this, but you are not able to refuse them. If you smoke or drink alcohol often, think about the future. These dubious pleasures will spoil you not only health but also life. If you consider your bad habits to be completely “harmless”, consider whether this is really so. So the habit of being late will play a trick on you. Soon, people will no longer take you seriously. They will think that you cannot be relied upon. Maybe you should not spoil your opinion about yourself? Get rid of minor flaws. Get ready to work on yourself.
5. Hateful work
You do not love your work, hate it with all your heart, but you continue to work. You are simply afraid to be left without money, afraid that you will not find another place soon. Do not be afraid of change. Hateful work takes your strength and energy. It’s very hard to work morally where you don’t like it. You have one life, another will not be. No need to waste your time on a business that you cannot stand. Go away. There are many job offers, do not grab the first one, otherwise the situation will happen again. Before you get a new job, think about what you want to do. Perhaps you decide to change the scope of activity or even do freelance work.
4. Own prejudices about oneself
Each person has an opinion about himself, it is not always true. Someone is inclined to exaggerate their merits, someone, on the contrary, underestimates himself. If you have long had prejudices about your personality, think about whether they are correct. Very often a person compares himself with others, more successful, wealthy, beautiful. Self-esteem from such comparisons falls, complexes appear. Stop following other people. You are neither better nor worse than them; you are different. If you do not have model parameters, this does not mean that no one will ever love you. If you do not have the talent to sell, then you need to change jobs, and not grow into complexes, comparing yourself with more successful colleagues.
3. Thoughts that you are financially insolvent
Such thoughts are often visited by people. And it doesn’t matter how they live. They will still think that they are financially insolvent. This is because they are comparing themselves to richer people. Think about whether you need wealth. Maybe what you have is quite enough. If you are really in a difficult position, then it’s time for you to change your lifestyle. Learn to count money, get a better paid job, look for a side job, solve your financial issues.
2. Promises that you cannot fulfill
As noted above, you need to enter the New Year without debt. If you cannot keep the promise, talk to the person, tell him that you cannot help. At least he won’t count on you. However, be prepared for the fact that one friend will have less. Try not to promise people anything. Learn to refuse, life will become much easier. Also do not promise yourself anything. Do not hope that from January 1 or 2 you start to lose weight, buy a gym membership and get married. If you do not keep these promises, your conscience will bite you. Replace promises with goals and strive to achieve them.
1. Self-digging and self-pity
Stop delving into yourself. Do not look for flaws. Moreover, do not feel sorry for yourself. It is better to spend this time on useful things. Learn, get your body in shape, chat with interesting people. Of course, sitting and feeling sorry for yourself is much easier than striving for your goal. But this is the lot of the weak, and you do not want to become like that. By the way, if you love doing introspection so much, then eliminate pity. Better to plan how to get rid of weaknesses and strive for its implementation.
Do not be fooled, do not think that follow all these recommendations, but tomorrow. Want to change your life, act immediately, do not put off anything until later.